I cannot believe Brennan and I have been married for 5 years!! I mean, we have two kids, so that kinda makes it more real, but still so much has happened in 5 years it's hard to believe that much time has already passed!

Brennan and I met almost 9 years ago when I was in college and he was at his first station in South Carolina. I know it seems cliche to say this but it was truly "love or connected" at first sight. When we first met there was just something about him that made me want to be with him all the time. He was funny, charming, and definitely a guys guy. He worked hard and liked to play hard and we always had fun together. Brennan told me he loved me after we had known each other all of three weeks and I have to say it didn't take me long to say it back. My family thought I was crazy but I just knew this guy was different. We dated all through my college years, commuting back and forth between our two apartments which were an hour away from each other. Brennan would get up at 4am sometimes just so he'd make it to work in time.
Brennan was always supportive of my education and my extra curricular activities, including all of my sorority work. He didn't even mind when I applied for a job where I'd travel 4-6 weeks at a time after college, even though that would be our first year of marriage...see Brennan proposed to me on March 16th, 2006. He was in Virginia the days leading up to the proposal and drove straight to my apartment and surprised me by proposing on my doorstep. It was simple, sweet and completely unexpected which is what made it so awesome. Brennan has even arranged to be off of work all weekend and had made reservations at a great restaurant,
82 Queen for Saturday night. We immediately called all of our family and friends and my brother, who lived in Charleston came over with a bottle of Champagne that he has been saving for the occasion!! It seems like everyone knew I was getting engaged but me! My friends brought me flowers and we spent the whole weekend celebrating!
After our engagement we started planning our wedding and picked January 27th, 2007 as our date. I cannot even explain how excited I was to be preparing to spend the rest of my life with Brennan. I feel so lucky that he picked me.
Here's a picture of the Grooms Cake from the Rehearsal Dinner. It says "Smith" with Nautical Flags!! This cake and our wedding cake were made by
Cake Lady Jill and were phenomenal!
We had our wedding ceremony at the Charlotte Marriot in Downtown, Charlotte, NC. We had aboue 240 guests and it was incredible. It was a Jewish Ceremony and Brennan did an amazing job saying our vows in Hebrew!
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| This is our "Katubah" - it's our marriage license and is an original print created just for us! |
Brennan and I went to
St.Lucia on our honeymoon and it was amazing! We had so much fun just relaxing together and having some fun in the sun. We went snorkeling, had a spa day and went to some awesome restaurants!
After our honeymoon life returned to normal and I was back traveling and Brennan was back at work. We started preparing for a move to Minnesota that summer and were so excited!! I traveled for another year after moving and got pregnant with Logan in May 2008.
Wow how our life has changed since Logan came along. I think it has made us closer and we've really had to work at being good parents and good spouses. It's a hard balance to find and sometimes we both struggle with it, but I couldn't imagine a better partner to be taking this journey with me. Brennan is an incredible father and was the best birth coach a girl could ask for.
We moved to Mississippi in June 2010 and got pregnant with Emmett in September 2010. Pregnancy was much tougher with a toddler running around but Brennan really stepped up to help me as it became harder and harder for me to do things with Logan.
I went into labor two weeks early with Emmett and as we sat in the hospital waiting for his arrival Brennan and I discussed how different his delivery was, since it was just the two of us this time. It was so special for us to do it all by ourselves and really allowed us to celebrate our little creation together.
I have to admit that I think Brennan is extra proud that he has two little boys. I mean, I think he would be happy no matter what...but when I see the three of them playing together I just know he's extra happy.
Please forgive the kind-of "cliff notes version" of our 5 years this blog has turned our to be but I didn't want it to get too long or too sappy.
So our first 5 years of marriage has meant: 3 moves, 2 kids, and 1 happy couple. I'm not saying we're happy all the time but I am saying that we've survived this long, another 5 years shouldn't be that hard. No matter how much Brennan can upset me sometimes (and I him of course) I cannot imagine living my life with anyone else by my side. I have truly married my best friend.
"Ani L'Dodi, v'Dodi Li"
"I am My Beloved's, and My Beloved is Mine"
Here's to another 5 years, B!
Cheers!
Diana